(1) Different people have different definitions for "SUCCESS". From my previours viewpoint in China, I hope that my husband would be a university professor, that's my definition for a successful man, so I focus on his education backgroud. Since we came here, everything is changing, so I don't know what is "SUCCESS".
(2) I do believe that most of men always put CAUSE in the first position in their mind, and then family... Although the successes they are pursuing are different, maybe Position, Money, Degree, Papers and something else, they are eager to be successful, and then they have good feelings to treat everthing well and we can keep our marriage longer. So I think my husband's cause is first important in our family. I don't like the kind of men who just focus on family stuff and live under wife's wings, no offense.
(2) I do believe that most of men always put CAUSE in the first position in their mind, and then family... Although the successes they are pursuing are different, maybe Position, Money, Degree, Papers and something else, they are eager to be successful, and then they have good feelings to treat everthing well and we can keep our marriage longer. So I think my husband's cause is first important in our family. I don't like the kind of men who just focus on family stuff and live under wife's wings, no offense.