Thanks for your kindness... -happysnowdog(Snow Dog) @硅谷华人论坛:硅谷枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of San Jose

Thanks for your kindness...

happysnowdog(Snow Dog)

It's been my first time to this forum, the reactions have been disappointing and totally out of my expectation, I don't want to see any humiliation to my friend anymore. I can see the darkness at the bottom of someone's heart, it has been humiliating themselves as well at the same time. People always have rights to pursue an happy marriage and life. I saw some people in this forum lost confidence in marriage, it is pathetic! I believe a good relationship is always based on trust and a lots of hard work, otherwise it doomed to be failure.

Thanks again!

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Up... 我的这个朋友因为照顾卧病在床的母亲多年，错过了找对象的最佳年龄，现在她母亲也不在人世了． -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-16 {136} (#2844637@0)

作为她的好朋友，我了解她，长得年轻，为人特好，现从事的职业直接与英文相关，加拿大这国家也将特别适应她，如果哪位朋友能帮留意，将感激不尽！

如果想出国，自己够移民条件就自己出来吧。没别要拿婚姻当赌注 -tulipa(tulip); 2006-3-16 (#2844699@0)

Dont comment please if you are not serious. Not everyone acts like what you imagine. -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-16 (#2844767@0)

You can put your AD on www.51.ca as well. -asker(asker); 2006-3-16 (#2844910@0)

Did earlier, no feedback... -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-16 {204} (#2844954@0)
I guess her age is the biggest barrier for now, but believe Mr. Right will always like her if get a chance to know more about her - considerate, gentle and simple - that is why I am trying so hard to help

Her never-married status at that age might be a bigger barrier than her age per se, in some people's eyes. -asker(asker); 2006-3-16 (#2845173@0)

37岁了, 还simple, 并不是好事啊. 中年男子如果还想找simple的中年女子, 那也是有点问题的. :) -qq00(Daisy); 2006-3-17 (#2845924@0)

又搞一言堂 -001isbetter(001-is-better); 2006-3-16 (#2844956@0)

那她为啥要在toronto找啊？国内选择范围不是更大一些？ -thiamin(梅干菜烧肉); 2006-3-16 (#2844690@0)

Thanks for reply... pls PM me if you are interested in. -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-16 (#2844774@0)

哈哈,霉博士 interested 不了了,她已婚有孩了. -lifejgb(信不信由你); 2006-3-16 (#2844813@0)

无所谓呀，说不定她知道人选呢．不必幸灾乐祸吧，haha -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-16 (#2844846@0)

别这么想,我只是说笑而已,没那意思,事实上,以你朋友的年龄,在这找是正确的选择. -lifejgb(信不信由你); 2006-3-16 (#2845008@0)

You may need to publish what she wants from a man in terms of personality, age, height, marital status and so forth. (divorced with or without children....) -asker(asker); 2006-3-16 (#2844921@0)

Thanks for the comments, please see... -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-16 {131} (#2844987@0)
Age: below 46
Height: doesnt matter
Marital History: either - Never Married or Divorced
Personality: Kind, Honest, Understanding

Sounds OK. :) She doesn't care about his height, while he might care about her height, so that you may need to specify her height. -asker(asker); 2006-3-16 (#2845181@0)

你的朋友在国内哪个城市？我国内一个好朋友至今也是单身。 -renters123(renter123); 2006-3-16 (#2845030@0)

Fuzhou. Where is he? -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-16 (#2845039@0)

He is in Shanghai. A little too far. -renters123(renter123); 2006-3-16 (#2845044@0)

I think so -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-16 (#2845049@0)

Well, Shanghai is closer to Fuzhou than Toronto, isn't it? -asker(asker); 2006-3-16 (#2845169@0)

good point. -lostindarkness(阳光灿烂); 2006-3-17 (#2847132@0)

感觉想找搬运工. -niceguy1(niceguy); 2006-3-17 (#2845244@0)

男士们估计都被杨老师吓着了，这贴发的不是时候 -wander2001(猫行天下); 2006-3-17 (#2845270@0)

请问在座几位和杨教授有何关系. 这怎么又和杨教授联到一块,HAHA! -lia23(Silverfish); 2006-3-17 (#2846054@0)

想找搬运工,去车衣厂;教育低,但有居留 -kvn(孤帆远影); 2006-3-17 (#2845272@0)

you guys are so smart, already got the best solutions for yourselves, thanks for sharing -samue(samue); 2006-3-17 (#2845282@0)

杀牛何用杀猪刀,不劳您大架 -kvn(孤帆远影); 2006-3-17 (#2845307@0)

I think I made a huge mistake :-) this forum is just for someone looking for funs ... enjoy yourselves everyone -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-17 (#2845265@0)

Becouse what you did doesn't make sense to guys who are looking for a relationship. -tuantuan(givemeabreak); 2006-3-17 (#2845298@0)

Don't understand what "makes sense" to "you guys" who are "looking for relationship", what bites you guys so hard? ... Please leave it alone if it is not your business. -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-17 {178} (#2845941@0)
I was just trying to see if I could help a friend to find out a potential relationship in Canada, what is wrong with it? do You Guys MAKE SENSE? show some respect in this forum.

The point is that you did not seem to provide us with specific and concrete information of your friend. All you have is general, too general to know what it is. -asker(asker); 2006-3-17 (#2845897@0)

That is not a "point" - it doesn't mean "you guys"have right to humiliate and look down someone you haven't known! - IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE!! -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-17 {177} (#2845982@0)
It is impossible for me to type everything about her when I find it is full of humiliation in this forum... but I do know there is always a Mr.Right for her, such a great lady!

I am sorry that you feel humiliated at this forum, while I would like you to know that I am not a guy, and I respect your friend as much as you do. I just share with you how I, as a woman, feel about your AD. -asker(asker); 2006-3-17 (#2846473@0)

It was not about myself, it was about my friend -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-17 (#2846517@0)

I understand, and again I apologize that some of us including myself may not be sensitive enough to her feelings even though in an unintentional manner. -asker(asker); 2006-3-17 (#2846530@0)

It is not important at this point. We always can tell something from people's first reaction... anyway, I do realize I put this topic at a wrong place, giving up :-)... Enjoy your forum life. -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-17 (#2846566@0)

实话说，福建人搞的移民局都神经西西的，弄不清楚真的假的 -kmylot(黑狗白狗); 2006-3-17 (#2846109@0)

看来,对假结婚的操很是熟悉,本人倒想讨教你的假结婚经历.帮中国三千万穷困人民谋一条出路.HAHA -lia23(Silverfish); 2006-3-17 (#2846231@0)

偶现在真结婚都不敢找了，怕说不清楚 -kmylot(黑狗白狗); 2006-3-17 (#2847480@0)

革命同志真结婚,有什么说不清楚??? -lia23(Silverfish); 2006-3-17 (#2847512@0)

don't leave with nothing............trying to help -rawmoon(rawmoon); 2006-3-17 {395} (#2846144@0)

Maybe you can try to make it a little bit specific, but not personal. like:
His age should be between: 35 to 45;
He has a good heart, regardless of this height, weight, etc.
His income should be enough to support himself, if not a family;
Children are not an issue, as long as he is willing to take more people into his heart.
He is looking scinerely for a wife and family, .............

Thanks for your kindness... -happysnowdog(Snow Dog); 2006-3-17 {565} (#2846235@0)
It's been my first time to this forum, the reactions have been disappointing and totally out of my expectation, I don't want to see any humiliation to my friend anymore. I can see the darkness at the bottom of someone's heart, it has been humiliating themselves as well at the same time. People always have rights to pursue an happy marriage and life. I saw some people in this forum lost confidence in marriage, it is pathetic! I believe a good relationship is always based on trust and a lots of hard work, otherwise it doomed to be failure.

Thanks again!

up -lia23(Silverfish); 2006-3-17 (#2846353@0)

真搞不清有些人是什么心态，不就说了对方是在国内的福建人嘛。用得着用这种态度对待。做人要厚道。。。 -rainingnow(raining); 2006-3-17 (#2847510@0)

@San Jose

Thanks for your kindness...

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